Friday, January 28, 2011

Cyber Bullying

Lacey Jones- Cyber bullying is a very serious issue in the United States. It is the use to text message, instant message, social networking, and etc. to harass, threaten, or intimidate other people. With the growth of technology, cyber bullying is becoming more and more common. In fact, cyber bullying has now become worse than traditional bullying because are constantly being harassed by text messages and social networks making the bullying almost impossible to escape. More than 13 million children in the United States have reported being victim of cyber bullying. Cyber bullying victims are almost twice as likely to commit suicide than those who have never experienced cyber bullying. This statistic is extremely shocking to me. I cannot even begin to understand how someone can be so insensitive to another person. One of the most known stories of cyber bullying is the story of Megan Meier who committed suicide three weeks before her 14th birthday. Soon after Megan opened a MySpace account in 2006, she began to receive messages from supposedly a boy named "Josh." The messages were actually being sent by Lori Drew and her daughter using a fake account. Megan found "Josh" attractive and they began to spend a lot of time messaging one another. After a few weeks "Josh" began to send Megan messages saying no one likes her because she was mean to her friends. Megan responded with a message saying "You're the kind of guy a girl would kill herself over." Twenty minutes after the message was sent, Megan was found dead in her bedroom closet where she had hung herself. Several weeks after Megan's death, Megan's parents were informed that Lori Drew and her daughter had created the fake account to mess with Megan and see what Megan really thought about Lori's daughter. At last count in July 2010, 44 states have passed bullying laws and 30 of those states have included laws of electronic forms of harassment. However, there is no federal law against cyber bullying but one has been proposed. The first federal cyber bullying bill, Megan Meier Cyber Bullying Prevention Act has made it to a House committee. The purpose of the bill is to "amend the federal crime code to impose criminal penalties on anyone who transmits in interstate or foreign commerce an intended to coerce, intimidate, harass, or cause substantial emotional distress to another person, using electrionical means to support serve, repeated, and hostile behavior." The bill was referred to the Subcommittee on Crime, Terrorism, and Homeland Security but has not been voted on yet. All charges against Megan's harasser, Lori Drew, were later dropped because the law simply did not state anything about cyber bullying. Lori Drew was convicted of violating the MySpace terms of service, but a judge overturned the conviction because it would allow anyone who violated a websites terms of service to be prosecuted. How much more is it going to take before the United States steps up and realizes they need to do something more to make this stop? The Megan Meier Cyber Bullying Prevention act will hold people responsible for their actions. If the Act is passed, cyber bullying will become a federal offense, cyber bullies will be charged and imprisoned for two or more years. I understand that by passing a federal law against cyber bullying, it will cost the country money, but to me its more important that these people be held responsible for what they have done rather than receiving a slap on the wrist. But until federal laws against cyber bullying are put in to action, it is important that parents monitor kids use to technology, as well as teach what to do if they are being bullied.

8 comments:

  1. This is a serious problem that has really grown in the past couple of years and is going to be hard to govern and control. We all know children and teenagers can be cruel to one another, and now with the technology they have access to, it is so much easier to bully another person, and get away with it. There was a case of bullying in a high school that a teenage boy open the door to the girl’s basketball change room, stuck his hand in and snapped a picture on his cell phone. He managed to get a picture of one of the basketball players and she was half naked. He sent the picture to all his friends. The young lady was so distraught that she quit the basketball team and she transferred to another school. Her parents sought counseling for her because she became so depressed. What that young man did, changed her life forever. Fortunately, the young man did not entirely get away with his act. What he did amounted to sending pornographic material of a minor to other people over his cell phone, and he did have to answer to authorities for his actions. Parents who allow children access to all the modern technological conveniences, really need to monitor what their children are doing.

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  2. I think there are several facets to this cyber bulling. People are often bolder and cruller when they think they have a veil over who they actually are. If you get on any message board, you see al lot of hostility in people that would get their lights punched out in the real world. The other facet is where is the parental control. I had a friend who caught his fourteen year old daughter in sex chat rooms with older men. He never thought that his child would do something like that. This situation was a wake up call for him and his wife. After that her computer stayed in the living room, where she could and her little sister could not hide what they were doing. While laws would be good, parents also need to do their jobs.

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  4. Sonja L. aka Puppy

    I think that is sad that people bully people this day and age still. Prior to all technology this use to happen in person..and I am sure that it still happens in person but now in cyper space. What is really happening....there need to be more teaching and educating with our children. There is definitely a problem...but what is the root of the problem...where is it coming from?

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  5. I appreciate you taking the time to make us aware of the growing problem that cyber-bullying is becoming. It was shocking to me to read that people who have experienced cyber-bullying are twice as likely to commit suicide than those who have not experienced it. People who participate in cyber-bullying definitely need to be held responsible if their actions yield a negative response.

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  6. I am also focusing on bullying as my topic. I am more focused on bullying in a school environment and how it factors into children's education. It will be interesting to see how our topics overlap and if we have any opposing views.

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  7. This is a perfect example of cultural lag. Technology has exploded and society is still trying to work out the social rules and sanctions. Just to play the devil's advocate for a moment. Maybe this is not a federal issue. It could be a slippery sloap. How are hostility and intimidation measured? Children can be very cruel to their peers. It is difficult for them at young ages to understand the impact of social behaviors. Maybe serving jail time is not the answer. It is truely sad when anyone commits suicide. This is definatly a relevant issue for everyone. I will intend to do my part to watch my children very closely.

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  8. Bullying is going to be almost impossible to get rid of because of how many ways students and young adults have to go about their bullying ways. During my time in high school we had a girl who had a 'bad' reputation for being easy, well some girls created a Myspace account about this girl with pictures of her and inappropriate photo-shopped images and a bio which included reference to her being like a mayonnaise jar. The cruelty of the page blew my mind even as a Senior in high school. Today they can do so much more, with sites like Facebook, twitter, and messenger. Twitter all you have to do is put a # before your words and it can instantly become a trend on twitter for anyone to see. Bullying has grown into a sadistic art form for so many young adults.

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