Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Parents prosecuted due to students' truancy: Who is held accountable--Parents or Teachers?
Brittney Fitzgerald
To Whom It May Concern:
I recently read an article in the Commercial Appeal that stated nineteen parents were charged in November 2009 for not responding to notices regarding their children’s absences. The parents were not arrested, but were issued misdemeanor citations and have been booked and processed. District Attorney General Bill Gibbons said bringing the parents to court was the only option. He said if the students continue to be truant, or if the parents refuse to enroll them in mentoring classes, he will ask the judge to hold the parents in contempt and seek appropriate punishment. It is now said that a few weeks later, twelve mothers of the nineteen parents agreed to attend parenting classes and enter their children in a mentoring program. So my question is who should be held accountable: parents or teachers?
According to the 2008 Shelby County Juvenile Court annual report, 487 truancy cases were reported countywide. City school officials say that they pick up an average of eight truant students per day. The students are from Chickasaw, Cypress, Hamilton, Hickory Ridge, Humes, Sherwood, Vance, and Westside middle schools. For those that do not know, these schools are located in lower income neighborhoods.
The mentoring program is located in only five middle schools and students with five or more absences are referred to the program by Juvenile Court. This program was created to reduce truancy throughout Memphis City Schools. The Memphis City Schools also has a hotline that encourages Memphis citizens to call if they see school-aged children not in school during school hours.
I feel as though this is a lose-lose situation. Parents should be held accountable, but as far as being prosecuted, I feel that was a bit harsh. On one hand, some of the parents are responsible for their children not being in school due to the lack of concern for the child. On the other hand, you have parents who are present at these homes and do care, but simply can't watch every action that their teenager is taking and are not notified until they give them a citation for truancy. I do think this mentoring program will help both the students and parents plenty if both are committed into bettering the life and future of the child.
Parents are responsible for their children. Point blank period. They brought them into this world, so therefore they should know where their children are at all times. I feel that the parents should be more involved with the child and active in the children’s schools that way to prevent students from missing school period. I do find it unfair for a parent, however, to have to get charged for an act his or her own child did. It is an unfortunate event, but it does happen.
As far as for teachers, they can only do so much. As a mentor, I have seen teachers who have played the multiple roles of parent and provider to the student. Once a teacher notices a student is missing from class in a number of days, the parent or guardian is contacted. If the teacher does not get a response, then they must do what they have to do as role of the teacher when it comes to grading assignments for that student. Yet once the student finally returns to school and without a letter of absence regarding why he or she was absent from school, BOTH the parent AND student want to get mad at the teacher for the child’s grade of a zero and want to bad mouth them or report them to the principal. That is the teacher’s job. Both parent and child know that if you are absent, you must have a note regarding why you are absent and then it is up to the administrative staff if the letter will be excused or not. I find it unfair for teachers having to receive such treatment when they are simply playing their main role.
Considering who these kids are will make the next generation of Memphis, I say it's well past time we did something for these children. These are the needy kids. I'm not sure if throwing all the parents away is going to help, but classes and mentoring are great ideas.
Consider these options when it comes to this situation, we do not know how the child would be affected if their parent were locked up. We also do not know what is going on in the child’s household. So instead of pointing the finger at one another, change your lifestyle as a parent and student.. things will eventually become better. Get involved. A change will come.
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I have noticed a severe change in the way parenting takes place as well as how the community responds. Like many kids that grew up when I did, I feared my parents and obeyed(for the most part) for that reason. If I did something out of line and someone who knew my mom was aware of it, they told her and I got in trouble anyway. NONE of this exists today. Teens in my neighborhood are free to roam the streets and curse loudly as they please. Their parents hear them and choose to ignore it as they go about their own activities. Neighbors have to resort to calling police for peace because simply speaking with the children will get you threatened or cursed out. Going to the parents will get you the same.My point is the parents are not parenting, so they should be held accountable when their children start missing school and causing problems in communities. A few days in jail may wake some of the parents up. It takes extreme measures to create change sometimes.As for the children making it while their parents are in jail, many are making a way for themselves while the parents do their own thing so it's not going to be that big of an adjustment. It's a sad but true fact. Whatever the reasons,many of today's children are raising themselves.
ReplyDeleteI recall a BIG difference in the ways things were when I was growing up with "concerned" parents. My parents made sure I did what I was suppose when sent out the house. Its mainly both the parents fault but the children need to be held accountable for thier actions too.I believe a harsher punishment should be reinforced for children missing school. Many parents send their children to school assuming that they are there and doing what is asked of them but kids will be kids and find a way to get out things they don't want to do. Putting parents away may scare the children a bit but its so children raising themselves that it may not phase them either way. I give my upmost respect to teachers nowadays dealing with our outrageous youth today. They can only do so much and play so many parts in a child's life. Its a shame teachers do not get the respect they deserve but how can they when they are disrespected by the parents for doing their job. I find this situation a lose-lose too but its up to "us" to change the behavior of these children and not be afraid of them. WE ARE TO BLAME--its time to intervene in our children's life and make a positive impact!!
ReplyDeleteThese cases were examples of extreme truancy. When I was growing up, there were students that as soon as their parents dropped them off for school, the students whould walk into the front door and out the back door. Those parents were involved to stop the truant behavior. Truancy was viewed back then as a social ill. Today parents, teachers, and parents are forced to be accoutable. Truant behavior can now be a criminal offense for students and parents. There are reprecussions for schools and teachers for excessive absenteeism. The schools funding is based on attendance, and excessive truancy can cause cuts in much needed funding for the schoools.
ReplyDeleteIt is unfortunate that the parents didn't respond to previous attempts of calls and letters to get the children in school. The parents that were charged were not involved and didn't respond to letters. When children are not attending school there could be high risk of involvment in juvinile violent crimes.
I look at the charges to the parents as a state intervention, and I hope that the teens involved will get the guidance from mentors and the parents to aid in the motavation to stay in school.
Brittney: I agree there is a dilemma as to whether the parent or the teacher should be accountable for these students. As a former substitute teacher, it is difficult for the teacher to take this responsibility. The parent is the primary person in charge of their children and the parent should be the disciplinarian when it comes to their children. The parents have the responsibility to ensure proper rules are implemented and enforced for their children. A teacher attempting to enforce the attendance of a student is limited. Some teachers speak with the students about their attendance and call parents. Some teachers put their jobs on the line by not always reporting the absence to keep students in school. These teachers try to work with the student and the parents to keep the student from being expelled or completely removed from their school. On the other hand, the parent has full care for the child and does not need permission from the teacher to enforce rules upon the child. I’ve subbed at Humes, Sherwood and Westside and all that I can say at this time, it is not the location of the school that is the problem. The lack of parental interaction, through guidance and follow-up, is the primary reason for this truancy issue. If charging the parents gets them to parent, then it has been worth the time and money the city has spent. EJ
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